Last I talked about self imposed limitations people have placed on themselves and the way forward, here's the flip side with societal influence on people's mind and what it has made out of most people in every society.
The society has become such an expert in making people an intelligent mediocre by imposing standards and rules that automatically dictates how and what they should become of themselves to the point that they give up on themselves and let loose of their true identities, passions and Dreams.
They've thought people to behave and conform instead of Releasing, pouring and contributing that part of them to improving the society, in order words just shotup and bahave,this sound contradictory, but it shows how selfish the society can be ,as long as they're making their returns from exploiting it citizens , life according to them is good.
They've thought people to think inside of the box only.
They've thought people to be grounded at all times never to brake the rules they've set to limit our abilities, talents and skills.
They've thought people what they can and can't do with their lives.
They've told people how high they can fly and how far they can dream and envision their lives.
The society has also trained people to become experts in doing what they're told and not what's right.
The reason is because no society wants people in it to be wise and knowledgeable so they won't have to challenge her or ask questions whatsoever, instead they want to have them as subjugates, slaves and sarvants which they can be dictated for and have their mind brainwashed with their own perspective about life to the extent that when they're done with them they'd feel worthless.
This are mere dorms of the society set by fellow men with ulterior motives and not God's principles for who they were meant to be!!!
I dare you to brake free from this entanglements and start living your true self, your true identity and your true purpose.
Atimes I hear people make statement like..."Sorry it's never done that way here, you better do as you're told or you quit". Well for me there's nothing wrong with people of such mind-set because I believe people are entitled to their opinions but the challenge here is if only they knew better probably they would understand that nobody has to live their lives to the standards of the society or to conform to the Successes as defined by the society.
Societal success and perceptions about life are all geared toward making you arive too soon and too small compared to what you could and should have accomplish following God's principles and purpose for your life.
The good news is that life is about choices, you can decide to live your life through the society or wake up to the realities of your Potentials, Passion and Dreams and become who you are at the depth of your heart regardless of what anybody thinks.
Often times we think we know ourselves enough but the truth is that what we know about ourselves are based on past experiences and achievements but we're completely unaware of what we are capable of doing and achieving, only if you knew the real you and what you are capable of doing, fear of failing, self doubt and low self-esteem won't be your companion.
This is why I believe being who you are at the core of yourself is the pivot to which you could know yourself the best.
There's so much about you that you don't know yet ,all you've known about you are the once you've allowed yourself to know, stretch out yourself some more and you'd be surprised how high you're capable of soaring, fine time and create time for yourself just for the purpose of knowing who you truly are and not the identity and the label society has placed on you.
Could it be that many people enjoy others company because they don't like their own company? In my opinion I would say most likely.
People can only enjoy your company when you love and value your own company.
Solitude should be part of our to do list daily because that's when you can reconcile all parts of your lives together in a sync...It's a time were you can improve and work on yourself for the best.
How can this be achieved, Start becoming Who you are from Where you are with What you have because that glorious destiny you've been envisioning can only become a reality by an action step in a forward direction inspired by Conviction, fueled by Passion which is ignited by a Vision derived from a clear sense of Purpose.
Always remember that we all 're responsible for the temporal positions we're now and the difference between were we are now and were we should be depends on how much we believe in ourselves and our dreams because there's absolutely nothing that can stop an hungry lion from seeing an elephant as lunch, height and weight regardless...as long as there's passion, an obstacle can only but become a stepping stone towards your achieving greatness.
Determination, Planning and Action guarantees success and fulfillment of dreams.
Stay blessed.