A BRIEF DESCRIPTION ABOUT TIME IN RELATION TO LIFE

Friends, this is one thing in life that is very IMPORTANT but often less talked about or regarded as a valuable commodity.
Kindly spare a few of yours to really understand what it is in reality.

TAKE NOTE OF THESE THOUGHTS
***What you are and what you'd become is dependent on how you use your TIME.***

***TIME can't be stopped but can be managed on how it's being used.***

☀TIME & LIFE☀
*Time is life.
*Life is Time.
*Life is defined as time.
*Life is measured by time.
*Life is determined by time.
*Life is qualified by time.
*Life is lived out in time.
*Life stops when time stops.
*The passing of time is passing of life.
*Time is temporary but life is eternal.
*Time could be a blessing or a curse.
###TREASURE IT###


☀DEFINITION OF TIME☀
Time could be defined as:..
*An interruption in eternity,
*Small measure of eternity,
*A piece of eternity,
*It's a slice of forever,
*It's a limited period during which an action or process exist and take place,
*Time is the measurements of space,
*It's the passing of existence.
*God created time and placed us in it so that we can live life in doses.
###APPRECIATE IT ###


☀PURPOSE OF TIME☀
Time is meant :
*To take us out of eternity .
*To protect us from forever .
*To measure the existence of life .
*To define life.
*To measure the quality of life .
*To account for life spent so far.
*To define the distance between our beginning and end.
*To live life in doses.
*To measure the purpose of life.
###FULFILL IT###


☀MEASURE OF TIME☀
*Time actually measures life in second's, minutes, hours, days ,weeks, months and years.
*Time measures life in Mornings, Noon, Afternoon and Evenings.
*Time measures life in yesterday, today and tomorrow.
*Time measures life in day and night.
*Time measures life in seasons as in Winter, Autumn, Summer and Spring.
###MAKE IT COUNT ###


☀THE EQUALITY OF TIME☀
*It's the only commodity that's common to all mankind.
*It's the only commodity we all possess.
*Every human on planet earth is given the same ration of time as in 24 hours, not more or less.
###APPROPRIATE IT###


☀VALUE OF TIME☀
*Everyone on earth are were they are today depending on how they used their time.
*Time is the currency of life.
*Time is used to buy life.
*Time is so powerful that whatever you spend your time in, you become.
*Time gives us time to drop some relationships that are detrimental to the measure of our life and a time to make some more relationships that's gonna add more value to our time.
###VALUE IT###


☀FACTS ABOUT TIME☀
*Time is money
*Time can be abused
*Time can be stolen
*Time can be lost
*Time can depreciated
*Time can be appreciated
*Time can be squandered
*Time can be devalued
*Time can be revalued after being lost by adjusting it to focus on thing that are productive.
*Procrastination kills time and postpone it to the future.
###MAXIMIZE IT###

☀LIMITATIONS OF TIME☀
*You can never stop time.
*You can never control time.
*You can never resist time.
*You can never compromise with time.
*You can never repossess time.
*You can never buy time.
*You can never slow down time.
*You can never speed up time.
*Until death,you are Stuck in time.
###MANAGE IT###


☀WHAT TO DO WITH TIME☀
*Manage it or it will manage your life for you.
*Use it ,your life depends on it.
*Appropriate it ,it's yours.
*Invest it so as to gain it.
*Convert it into something productive and valuable.
*Time should be used to INITIATE, CREATE, DEVELOP, BUILD, AND ADD VALUE TO THE LIFE THAT EXISTS IN IT.
*Use time to fulfill your divine purpose.
###MAKE IT PRODUCTIVE ###


☀HOW TO REDEEM YOUR TIME☀
*By taking ownership and control of your time .
*By converting it into opportunity to fulfill your purpose.
*By designing your days to create value in life.
*By managing how it's being used.
*By protecting it .
*By allocating it a focus .
*By giving it a vision.
*By apportioning purpose to it.
*By measuring it results.
*By knowing it worth and value.
###REDEEM IT ###


☀KEYS TO REDEEMING TIME☀
*Document a plan.
*Establish your priorities.
*Pursue your passion only.
*Protect your plan and priorities.
*Identity what you value .
*Make decisions based on destiny.
*Inventory your associations and see who's wasting your time.
*Review your investments of time.
*Do not try to please everyone it encourages time wastage.
*Forget about the past and begin to pursue and design your future now.
*Learn and gain mastery of your time and also when it's time to move into actions.
###PROPER MANAGEMENT OF TIME GUARANTEES A FULFILLED DESTINY ###

I BELIEVE THAT WITH THIS REMINDER, YOU WOULD MAXIMIZE THE NEXT FEW SECONDS OF YOUR LIFE AND MAKE IT COUNT BY ADHERING TO THOSE INSIGHTS,IT'S MY TIME POURED OUT TO YOU.

Make your life count by maximizing your TIME today, stay inspired and blessed.

THE MYTH OF FINDING A PARTNER

Let me begin by saying that God does not have one and only special person for us as regarding marriage.

There are a number of people in the world who are potential mates for us because of similarities in personality, character, values, and interests to our own.

If there are a number of "suitable " candidates for us to marry, then marrying one of them becomes a choice that we have to make.

The choice that we make to marry a particular person calls for a firm commitment on our part to be faithful to the one we have chosen.

God does not choose the person He wants us to marry, if there was a thing He could have chosen for us that would be OUR SALVATION but still, you have the choice to choose to be saved.

God created all of us with the freedom to choose, and He never violets that freedom.

God may bring potential mates across your path like He brought Eve to Adam. But He does not choose that person for you.

You have to make the choice yourself based on what you learn about that person and on the nature of friendship you desired before hand.

The world builds relationship on the bases of certain criteria such as: Physical appearance, Social status, Intellectual ability, and financial means but this ain't the true bases on making a decision such as Marriage.

The key to finding the right mate is first to identify the qualities and character that  you hold as your standards without compromise, and then evaluate the potential candidate that fits according to those standards.

Out of all the people you know, out of all the friendships you developed, out of all the legitimate "possible " options before you, you have to choose one person with whom you wish to spend the rest of your life with.

Don't forget that God only provides us with the RAW MATERIALS FOR EVERYTHING, HE NEVER GIVES US READY MADE MATERIALS. so even while choosing , have in mind that you may not have all your listed qualities checked, that means the rest of the mental pictures you have in your head is left for you to work out and make it a reality in your spouse's.

It's always edifying following God's standards as regarding choosing your life partner, because discovering God's Original intent and purpose for your life has a direct dependence as to who you would choose as your partner. As long as fulfillment of your destiny is concerned, your spouse has a greater part to play either to help you get there or to abort your efforts of arriving there.

Choose YOUR SPOUSE WITH WISDOM.

WISDOM ...THE PRINCIPAL THING.

Get this UNDERSTANDING about WISDOM:
It's not the celebration of Information that is WISDOM but THE APPLICATION OF  INFORMATION LEARNT AND THE PRACTICALISATION OF AN INFORMATION KNOWN.

It's not about KNOWING WHAT TO DO...that's "INTELLIGIENCE" but DOING WHAT YOU KNOW PER TIME.

Yes it's the mother of Extra-ordinary Exploits but it's confirmed by WORKS NOT BY WORDS.

It's defined by your ATTITUDE, that's :
The way you THINK
The way you REASON
The way you TALK
The way you WALK
The way you DRESS
The way you ACT
The way you RESPOND
The way you DECIDE
The way you PLAN
The way you STRATEGIZE
The way you WORK
The way you RELATE
The way you ASSOCIATE
The way you CORDINATE YOURSELF
The way you BEHAVE
And the way you LIVE

All of these represent the extent to which you UNDERSTAND WISDOM.
THE GREATEST OF ALL IS THE WISDOM OF GOD WHICH HAS TO  DO WITH THE PURSUIT AND DISCOVERY OF GOD'S WAYS AND PRECEPTS THROUGH HIS WORD.

ITS THE SURRENDER OF ONCE WILL AND PLAN TO THE WILL AND PLAN OF GOD.
ITS ABOUT MAKING EVERY STEP FORWARD WITH ELSHADAI.
IN HIM ALONE WE CAN FIND TRUE WISDOM FOR LIFE.

IN ALL YOUR GETTING, GET AN UNDERSTANDING OF HIM.

LITTLE FLAWS WE THINK DOESN'T COUNT IN COMMUNICATION

Let's think through this together Friends:
 "Your words has the Power to cause changes in LIFE as a Purposeful Youth ,you have to watch and becareful  of what you SAY, because you have what you SAY."
More so, be that confidant someone is yearning to have.

It reflects your VALUE FOR PEOPLE.

Let people's secret be safe with you

If the people that confided in you wanted the whole world to know about it,they would have gone to the Internet and share it.

You are not better than anybody else,therefor do not speak condescendingly to people.

Be extremely polite to people,its a door opener to career and relationship.
When you are tempted to be rude, you have the will to resist it.

Listen to all sides of conversation before you speak.

It will sound foolish speaking without facts.

As a matter of wisdom,listen as twice as you speak.

Because when a Wise man speaks, it gives people what to think about
,It's always a mind blowing thoughts ,be that WISE PERSON.

Self confidence is TALKING LESS and LISTENING MORE.

If you do not have what to say,SAY NOTHING.

Make sure what you are saying is the truth so you never have to live in fear of being discovered.

Think twice,Speak once.

If you catch yourself exaggerating,correct yourself immediately and say the RIGHT THING.

The more you lie,the more lies you will formulate to cover-up the previous ones concocted.

Truth LIBERATES,the path of INTEGRITY is always the BEST CHOICE.

LIES,will forever make you look behind trying to see what is catching up with you.

To become an EXCEPTIONAL CONVERSATIONALIST, Practice:
Active Listening,
Asking questions,
Don't interrupt others talking be careful to know when it's your turn to say something, maintain EYE CONTACT it creats conviction.

Though its funny but try this: Tape record your voice,say your name,what you do and where you live,
Listen to it and correct your flaws.

Express your opinion and let others express theirs with mutual respect.

Learn to pay compliments to people,especially how they look,dress,and speak.

Most importantly,do not try to impress people with your ACCOMPLISHMENTS, let them discover it themselves.

While communicating, learn to be assertive, tactful, and sensitive.

Don't always force the conversation to be in your favor, in order words don't always want to win the conversation, you will end up making a mess of yourself indirectly.

Say the BEST you know about people always, you can never tell who's listening.

 When talking to people avoid talking about your hurts and those who coursed them.

Do not forget to work on your tenses and vocabularies,it compels the listener to listen even when it is against his/her will.

Body language and facial Expression forms a greater part of communication,therefore let WORDS and NON-VERBAL Cues harmonize.

Take care of your breath always ,it makes people feel comfortable around you.

Lastly:Remember that your ability to express yourself clearly will draw QUALITY people to YOU,and open doors of Opportunities for you

Develop a good communication Skills today and Be The person You've Always Wanted To be.

Keep a date with me and i will guarantee your thrilling experiences that you will love yourself for doing so.


Stay bless...

FEAR OF SELF, THE WAY FORWARD .

An individuals GREATEST fear in life is not that we are less a brilliant individual or nonentities but FEAR OF OWN SELF
If you could oblage yourself a little sincerity ,you would agree with me that at some point in life you pondered on the following thoughts in your mind :

Who am I to be this :
Brilliant,
Gorgeously made ,
So Beautifully designed,
So Handsome that men wished they could be ME,
So Blessed and Favoured among men,
So Talented that Kings and Queen's come soliciting for my assistance.

The truth is.....we are often afraid of only one person in the entire univers apart from our Creator God....that one person is OURSELVES

THE MOMENT YOU STOP BEING AFRAID OF WHAT YOU ARE CAPABLE OF AND START DOING WHAT YOU SHOULD , THAT'S THE MOMENT A LEADER IS BIRTHED.

Do not consider yourself to be less of a human just because of other people's accomplishments, you are ORINAL AND NOT A COPY OF THE ORIGINAL, so start acting like one and become all that you could be.

Of course this can't be a reality if you do not STRETCH OUT YOURSELF PASSED WHAT YOU THINK IS YOUR LIMIT, there's always more to be stretched.

YOU CAN, ONLY IF YOU WILL.

Friends how far you go in life is totally dependent on the scale to which you measure yourself, by this I mean ,What you've done compared to WHAT YOU COULD AND SHOULD HAVE DONE.

 It affirms the above said fact that YOUR TRUE SELF CAN ONLY BE MEASURED BY WHAT YOU'VE DONE COMPARED TO WHAT YOU COULD AND SHOULD HAVE DONE RATHER THAN COMPARING YOURSELF WITH OTHER PEOPLE'S ACHIEVMENTS AND GET DEPRESSED ABOUT IT.

Getting mastery of WHOM YOU TRULY ARE is the take off point of your flight as regarding the fulfillment of your set purpose in life.

Accepting this fact...it's good enough to propel you into YOUR SELF DISCOVERY.

Have this is mind:..you can never imagine how far you can go in life until you're willing to start were you are with what you have,no matter how messed up your situation might seem at the moment, You are still an asset to the world loaded with so much potentials Worth of values that no amount of money can quantify it value.

Just know that since it did not destroyed you then it was meant to mend you and shape you for your next level.

Accept yourself the way you are and get pass your Past because you can't change it but you have all it takes to make the Future what it should be.

Decide to overcome this SELF INHERENT FEAR OF FAILING IF YOU WOULD TRY IT THE FIRST TIME ,REMEMBER THE OTHER SIDE OF FAILURE IS OPPORTUNITY INCUBATING SUCCESS, meanwhile failure is simply LEARNING HOW TO DO IT AGAIN MORE INTELLIGENTLY.

You are Unique ,you are one of your kind likewise what is deposited inside of you.

The world is waiting to receive an offload of those deposits, you are not an accident on this planet earth instead you were Beautifully and Wonderfully made by God to fulfill an assignment,discover yours and effective in fulfilling it.

Get started and get busy with your TRUESELF and the moon will have no option but to become your footstool.

 See you there.....

LIFE CAPSULES...CHARACTER CHECK LIST.

Try this Capsules,they'l make you a more PERFECT YOU:

*If it's Wrong, don't do it,because you'll live with it for the rest of your life.

*Don't be a people's pleaser,because people can't be pleased despite how far you may try to go.

*Say "Exactly" what you mean and Mean Exactly what you 'Say ',it makes up your CHARACTER.

*Don't be afraid to say "YES",it makes you take responsibility of your life.

*Don't be afraid to say "NO",it makes you prepare for the consequences.

*Always trust your Intuition, it always right.

*Let go of what you can not control,else it gonna control you.

*Never let go of your Dreams, it's your future as imaginary pictures derived from your Purpose for life.

*Never speak bad about yourself, it has a direct dependence to your Self Image.

*Stay far away from pretense, it takes you far away from becoming your TRUE SELF

*Be kind to yourself, you need it.

*Be kind to others, it makes the world a better place.

*Love yourself and nourish it, it the vehicle that will drive you to your destination.

*Love God and trust His judgement's and WORDS concerning your life,it's the ONLY WAY TO FULFILL YOUR PURPOSE ON EARTH.

*Live right and do what is right, don't forget that a thing being GOOD DOESN'T MEAN IT'S RIGHT,it's the key to fulfilling your destiny.

And the list goes on and on.............

THE FIVE BIG "W"s

This 5 W'S of Life is quiet important we look at it closely,because is meant to guard our lives against too many errors while fulfilling our Destinies.

*WHO you are is what makes you Special and Unique...Don't change that for any reason.

*WHAT lies ahead of you will always be a mystery but don't be afraid because God is waiting for you to arrive there.

*WHEN life pushes you over:push it back harder than it did by making sure you land with your back on the ground,and your face looking up...because if you can LOOK UP,YOU STAND UP.

*WHERE there are choices to make,be careful to make the right once so you don't live to regret them the rest of your life.

*WHY things happen will not always be Clare ,but if you give a closer look:the message will definitely become vivid. Instead of asking "Why Me"...you should rather ask "What's The Message In This".

Think through this nuggets and act on them,then you'l see yourself taking a different altitude altogether.
It will take you there faster than you could have imagined.

CHANGE IN IT ESSENCE

I would say:
IT IS THE ONLY PERMANENT THING THAT TAKES PLACE IN LIFE ,BUT WE CAN REGULATE "HOW' AND "WHEN" IT SHOULD HAPPEN.
Interestingly, we have the following kinds of 'CHANGE';
CHANGE that happens 'TO US'
CHANGE that happens 'AROUND US'
CHANGE that happens 'WITHIN US' and
CHANGE that 'WE MAKE HAPPEN'

Either ways, some of those MUST HAPPEN AS LONG AS YOU HAVE LIFE IN YOU as a result the following kinds of PEOPLE emerges;
People who WATCH THINGS HAPPEN,
People who LET THINGS HAPPEN,
People who ASK WHAT HAPPEN, and
People who MAKE THINGS HAPPEN.

Goodnews is....YOU HAVE THE POWER TO DECIDE WHICH OF THOSE CHANGES MUST HAPPEN TO YOU BECAUSE IT MUST DEFINITELY TAKE PLACE .
DECIDE TO BECOME AN AGENT OF CHANGE RATHER THAN BECOMING A VICTIM OF CHANGE.

BECOMING AN AGENT OF CHANGE ENTAILS THAT YOU DECIDED BEFORE HAND HOW THE CHANGE HAPPENS AND NOT THE REVERSE.

Remember its INEVITABLE but you have all it takes to regulate how it manifest in your Life and your domain.

THE WORLD IS IN ABRUPT NEED OF AGENTS OF CHANGE, DETERMINED WITHIN YOU TO BECOME ONE TODAY STARTING FROM WHERE YOU ARE CURRENTLY AND WITH WHATEVER YOU HAVE.
THAT'S ALL THAT REALLY COUNTS.

SUCCESS IN PERSPECTIVE .

Make no mistake about 'SURVIVING', it isn't.
It is the inbuilt CONVICTIONS for any achievement long before you engage in it.
It resides in your MIND which entails your perceptions toward anything or a challenge.

It rides on the wings of PASSION FOR EXCELLENCE.
It is about making real the Mental glimpse that you wish  IT SHOULD BE according to HOW IT SHOULD and precisely WHEN IT SHOULD BE.

It requires Seven-Dimensional Thinking;IN-and -Outside of the box,ANGULAR n PLANE-SIDES of the box and a microscopic view into every facet of the box.

Of course it requires a non-negotiable tools to make it worth it name; that is  QUALITY INVESTMENT OF TIME because our Brains have this unlimited capacity of STORING ANY AMOUNT OF INFORMATION WITH PRECISE RECOLLECTION WHEN NEEDED...Surprisingly WE NEVER FORGET ANY PIECE OF INFORMATION WE'VE EVER COME ACROSS OR SEEN IN THE COURSE OF OUR LIFE...

IT'S A SIMPLE REFLEX THAT REQUIRES A STIMULATOR FOR IT'S RECEPTORS TO KICK INTO THE PROCESS OF RECOLLECTION OF THAT VERY  INFORMATION.

Therefore why not spend some QUALITY TIME doing the reading because YOU CAN'T APPLY WHAT YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND AND CAN'T UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU DON'T KNOW WHICH YOU OBVIOUSLY DON'T READ.

I would like to urge you to embrace every CHALLENGES as they come your way, they are meant to make you BETTER AND STRONGER because in every OPPOSITION,there's always an OPPORTUNITY inside it incubating SUCCESS.

Though FEAR might grip you,here's a thing: USE IT AS FUEL FOR ACHIEVING EXCELLENCE and not to EXCUSE YOURSELF FROM SUCCEEDING.

YOU ARE WIRED TO SUCCEED IN LIFE, IT'S IN YOU...DISCOVER IT AND MAKE IT A REALITY IN ALL YOU TOUCH TO DO BECAUSE "IT'S IN YOUR BLOOD".

THE POWER OF THE MIND

THE POWER OF THE MIND

★●●●THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WHERE YOU ARE CURRENTLY AND WHERE YOU SHOULD BE IN LIFE IS NOT ONLY BASED ON THE DECISIONS YOU MAKE TODAY BUT THE "MOTIVE" TO WHICH THE DECISIONS STAND..... It can either be based on your FEELINGS & EMOTIONS or is based on GOD'S REVELATION IN YOUR MIND.●●●★

Remember that GREAT DESTINIES ain't based on FEELINGS,EMOTIONS, not even SIGHT as a function of the eyes, though they may have a part to play in getting you there they shouldn't be relied upon cos they're temporal, but rather it's dependent on HOW FAR YOU ARE WILLING TO EXPLORE YOUR MIND WITH LIMITLESS RESTRICTION AND SEE BEYOND WHAT YOUR EYES CAN FIX ON.♟

OUR MINDS HAS A DIRECT DEPENDENCE AS TO HOW OUR DESTINIES WOULD BE LIKE IN A SPACE OF TIME.

REMEMBER IF YOUR CAN THINK IT(OR IMAGINE IT), YOU CAN BECOME IT.

‪#‎GETyourMINDinSHAPEandYourDESTINYwillCorrespondToTheSHAPEofYourMIND‬.

TWO MOST IMPORTANT ASSET OF THE YOUTHS AND THE OLDER FOLKS

☆●●●It's so amazing how Life present itself when talking about AGE, if you would pause to reason in a short while: You will agree with me that...

●→YOUNG FOLK'S do have TIME AND OPPORTUNITY in abundance but a handful of them lack WISDOM on how to use the TIME, likewise EXPERIENCE when OPPORTUNITY is afforded to them.

●→On the contrary older people tend to have WISDOM AND EXPERIENCE in abundance but  many lack TIME AND OPPORTUNITY to make changes and IMPACT as they could have when they were young...as such, they're left with regrets.

Therefore you can imagine HOW GREAT THE YOUNG FOLKS WOULD BECOME IF THEY  COULD ACCEPT TO TAKE A RIDE WITH THE HOLY SPIRIT, AND ALLOW THE WISDOM OF GOD TO FLOOD THEIR LIVES WHICH HAS IN IT ALL THAT PERTAINS TO THEIR  LIFE AND DESTINY IN GOD.

By the reason of reading this, you are half a step away from becoming all that you were CREATED TO BECOME BY GOD, because I believe you will heed to those words.●●●☆

#SEEYOU@THETOP

LIVING OUT YOUR UNIQUENESS

★★TRY ALL YOU CAN  TO LIVE OUT YOUR UNIQUENESS BECAUSE THAT'S WHO YOU TRULY ARE ★★

→BELIEVE while others are DOUBTING.
→PLAN while others are PLAYING.
→STUDY while others are SLEEPING.
→DECIDE while others are DELAYING.
→PREPARE while others are DAY-DREAMING.
→BEGIN while others are PROCRASTINATING.
→WORK while others are WISHING.
→SAFE while others are WASTING.
→LISTEN while others are TALKING.
→SMILE while others are FROWNING.
→COMMEND while others are CRITICIZING.
→PERSIST while others are QUITTING.

◆◆What will give you the drive  to Believe, Plan, Study, Decide, Prepare, Begin, Work, Safe, Listen, Smile, Commend, and Persist....is this guy named  PASSION generated by CONVICTION motivated by VISION which is out of your PURPOSE .◆◆

★Passion could only make meaning and give you initiative only if you stay within your STRENGHT ZONE and continually moving outside your COMFORT ZONE because complacency kills Passion, reduces one to average, hinders you from soaring not withstanding how much height you want to attend, most of all, it puts your DREAMS beyond your reach.★

☆THINK AND ACT FAST.
☆If you "MUST SUCCEED IN LIFE"...RISK TAKING is inevitable.
☆And if you "MUST FULFILL YOUR DESTINY "...KNOWING GOD FOR YOURSELF is the staring point. ●

SPEED VESUS DIRECTION

★It's absolutely WORTHLESS gaining SPEED in the wrong DIRECTION :
●GET YOUR BEARINGS RIGHT FIRST.

★It's absolutely WORTH WHILE getting your CHARACTER fixed before assuming a POSITION:
●IT MAKES THE POSITION QUITE EASY TO FUNCTION.

★It's seemingly NECESSARY to get your PRIORITIES OUTLINED:
●IT GUARDS AGAINST TIME MISMANAGEMENT.

★It's of a GREAT importance to be SELF DISCIPLINE in all facet of life:
●IT ENHANCES AND GIVES FULFILMENT TO THE ABOVE SAID POINTS.

★It's so edifying knowing WHERE you are headed for in LIFE:
●IT GUARDS AGAINST ANY FORM OF EXCUSE FOR FAILURE WHILE ON THE JOURNEY.

★It's ultimately glorious DISCOVERING YOUR PASSION and making it your PROFESSION:
●ITS THE KEY TO FULFILLING YOUR ASSIGNMENT ON EARTH.

♥INDEED KNOWING GOD FOR YOURSELF IS THE ONLY WAY ALL OF THIS THINGS COULD BECOME A REALITY.♥

☆☆A WORD ABOUT DECISION MAKING☆☆

★★This is something that we virtually engage in in our day to day activities but have you for once  considered what led you into making that very DECISION and the possible consequences thereafter?
Well let's get some insight about that.

☆We usually make DECISIONS by weighing an INFORMATION against the standards we believe to be RELIABLE AND TRUE.👍

☆So at the DECISION MAKING TABLE WITH YOURSELF, four personalities shows up at the square table to decide what you'll finally say as regarding the INFORMATION IN QUESTION.
This will include:

★YOUR MIND  which comes with LOGICAL REASONING based on FACTS 😴

★YOUR EMOTIONS which comes with UNSTABLE THOUGHTS based on temporal FEELINGS 😭😤

★YOUR FLESH says we have to fulfill our LUST remember? 😉

★THE HOLY SPIRIT being a gentle Spirit  will quietly wait until they are done defending themselves, He then advocates on your behalf by bringing into your remembrance WHAT GOD'S WORD SAYS AS REGARDING THE SITUATION which is RELIABLE, SURE AND MOST OF ALL, THE TRUTH.👍

☆So in essence, whoever we end up yielding to as our MOST RELIABLE SOURCE will facilitates what would be our DECISION.

☆TO WIN THE BATTLEFIELD IN OUR MIND FOR A  DECISION, WE NEED TO DISCIPLINE OUR MIND AND IT THOUGHTS ♥

☆DISCIPLINE will always tell you:
→I don't care about what the  logical facts says ,
→I don't care about how I feel about this ,
→I don't care about what people might say,
→All I care is WHAT AM I SAYING WITH REFERENCE TO WHAT THE WORD OF GOD SAYS CONCERNING THE SITUATION.♡

☆From the illustration above you can tell WHO to listen to the next time DECISION MAKING knocks at your door because it will .
☆Believe me you can always live with the  consequences of TRUSTING THE HOLY SPIRIT but the reverse is disastrous and unforgettable yielding to the other three guys at the table.

♥IT PAYS TO LIVE BY THE WORD OF GOD,THAT'S THE ONLY GUARANTEED WAY TO MAKING IT TO THE END OF YOUR DESTINY. ♥

GOD'S ORIGINAL INTENT FOR MANKIND.

Here's God's ORIGINAL PLAN FOR MANKIND :
☀God's original plan in creation was to EXTEND HIS HEAVENLY KINGDOM ON EARTH AND DOMINATE EARTH THROUGH MAN. 

☀God's purpose was to ESTABLISH A FAMILY OF SONS, NOT SAVANTS.

☀God's purpose was to ESTABLISH A KINGDOM OF SONS WHO ARE FELLOW KINGS IN THE KINGDOM, AND NOT SUBJECT'S. 

☀God's purpose was to ESTABLISH A COMMONWEALTH OF CITIZENS OF THE KINGDOM, NOT CHRISTIANITY: CHRISTIANITY IS SIMPLY MAN'S ATTEMPT TO REACH GOD SINCE THE FALL OF MAN, BUT THE KINGDOM OF GOD IS GOD REACHING OUT HIS RULERSHIP TO MANKIND WITH HIS INTENTIONS FOR MANKIND TO DOMINATE AND MANAGE THE EARTH WITH HIS CULTURE AND PRECEPTS. 

☀God's intent was to ESTABLISH RELATIONSHIP AND PARTNERSHIP WITH MANKIND ,NOT RELIGION. 

☀God's original intent and purpose was to RULE THE SEEN FROM THE UNSEEN,THAT'S MANKIND WITH LEGAL AUTHORITY ON EARTH INFLUENCING EARTH WITH THE LEADERSHIP OF THE HOLY SPIRIT WITHIN MANKIND. 

☀The DOMINION MANDATE was given to be exercised over the earth and all the creatures, NOT FELLOW MANKIND. 

☀God gave us RULERSHIP OF THE EARTH, NOT OWNERSHIP. 

☀As legitimate AUTHORITY OVER THE EARTH, GOD WILL NOT DO ANYTHING ON EARTH WITHOUT PERMISSION OR ACCESS FROM THOSE ON EARTH TO WHOM HE GAVE DOMINION. (Mathew 18:18)

☀God can do ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING, BUT ONLY THE THINGS WE GIVE HIM LICENSE TO SEE HAPPEN ON EARTH, IN OTHERWORD'S HEAVEN IS WAITING ON EARTH TO MOVE INTO ACTIONS. 

☀THE MESSAGE OF THE KINGDOM OF GOD WAS THE ONLY MESSAGE JESUS PREACHED WHILE ON EARTH,EVERY OTHER THINGS THAT FELLOWED WAS EVIDENT THAT THE KINGDOM OF GOD HAS ARRIVED. 
THE CROSS WAS A MEANS TO RESTORING MANKIND TO THE ORIGINAL INTENT OF GOD FROM THE BEGINNING,IT WASN'T THE MESSAGE HE PREACHED. 

HI FRIENDS, ITS ALL ABOUT THE KINGDOM AND HIS RIGHTEOUSNESS, EVERY OTHER THINGS WILL AUTOMATICALLY BE ADDED TO SHOW THAT IN THE HOME COUNTRY THERE'S AFFLUENCE AND ABUNDANCE ,HEALTH AND WEALTH, JOY AND PEACE IN THE HOLY GHOST... THIS IS THE KINGDOM OF GOD AND IT'S MY HEART POURED OUT TO YOU.

STAY IN TOUCH FOR MORE OF THIS REVELATIONAL KNOWLEDGE.

CONFLICT AND RELATIONSHIP

CONFLICT AND RELATIONSHIP

If you would be sincere to yourselve,then you'l agree with me that no matter how good your RELATIONSHIP may be, 

No matter how strong your love for each other may be,CONFLICTS WILL ARISE.

When it dose,that should not be an indication to end the Relationship.

If you do not deal with your conflicts now,they may destroy your Relationship in future.

Believe me if your do not encounter CONFLICTS in your Relayionship,if everything is going on smoothly.

Please become suspiciouse because someone is playing a good job of lying to the other person or worst still both of you are deceiving yourselves.

Conflict arises out of  distinct differences and peculiar personalities that lies within our temperaments.

They are:Sanguine,Choleric,Melancholic and phlegmatic,everyone  has this distinct characters in them

It makes them different from everyone else.

Its important to know that 'Two Opposite' temperaments often attracts each other.

More so,its obviouse that male and female reason,think,feel,see and approach issues from different perspectives.

Relationship usually begins from the known to the unknown.

When you first met each other,you were attracted by each other's similarities.

But the closer you get to know the other party the more glaring your differences will manifest and will lead to a conflict. 

Resolving conflicts is one of the major ways through which your relationship gets stronger and better.

Never permit external forces of friends or family to sow seeds of discord,ill feelings into your relationship,its increases the rate of reoccurence of Conflicts.

Learn to protect your relationship.

Conflict may have spiritual root,therefore you have to deal with them PRAYERFULLY.

Always ask for divine help of the Holy Spirit before raising up an issue for Resolutions.

COMMUNICATION is the back-bone to which Relationship is built,

Dimminishing communication is a sign of a declining relationship.

The best communication skills you can develop is listening,...practically you enjoy spending much time with some that listens to you while you talk.

You feel they care and are really interested in you.

Never get scared to confront an issue,even when he or she tries to be evasive or uses emotional manipultion tactics like sulking,crying,and rage

Stand your ground and demand answers.

Go right to the point,avoid bringing up past issues unless its will help in clarifying some fact for better understanding in the present discours.

Becareful when raising issues most especially sensitive matters...they should be treated with outmost carefullness and sincerity of heart without bias.

Be sure you schedule your talk sessions equally,one taking turn after another and not both parties at once.

It show respect and maturity on both sides.

More so,issues like this should be discoursed in a serin(natural landscapes) environment,its calms the mind and relaxes the nervs.

Dialougue is always the best way of resolving CONFLICTS IN RELATIONSHIPS and never should you accept MUTE MODE as explaination for unresolved issues.

The female folks may be provoking many atimes but guys bear with them when such happens,sooneer than noticed they will switch back to their appropriate behaviour
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For the guys,do not attemps raising your hands on a Lady in anger,it reduces your protective rule as a man.

It also drains your intergrity as the head man.

Nobody should be proud about being the first to say"I'm Sorry".

It dose not reduce or add anything to your personaly,it only entails that you value your Relationship more than your ego.

There should be a reassurance from both parties for commitment to the relationship
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Hiding your anger behind a facede of smiles may be suicidal to your relationship.

The first step to resolving and neutralizing conflicts is opening up and talking about them when they are yet small.

Abusive,derogatory,insulting languages should not be used.

Like I said earlier,having listen and being listend to,this kind words "I'M SORRY" should be expressed politly from both parties as a sign of remorse.

UNDERSTANDING decreases the rate at which conflict arises in a Relationship.

Seek to understand each other,starting from the temperament down to the minor things you might feel its unecessary.

It matters.

In all God should be at the center of your Reationship,like i said in the previous sequels:

It should be PURPOSE BASED RELATIONSHIP.

Hope to come your way agian soon,untill then remain blessed. 
ROYFOUND

DATING AND RELATIONSHIP

♥GOD'S STANDARDS ABOUT DATING AND RELATIONSHIP ♥

★You  are ready to date when you are aware of both the benefits and the dangers of dating

★You are ready to date when you have worked out beforehand a clear set of guidelines for behavior based on  God's word

★You are ready to date when you have resolved in your Spirit that you will not lower or comprises those standards for any reason ,even if it  means losing the date

★You are ready to date when you don't need to

★You are ready to date when you have first learned How to be alone

★A WHOLE  single  has a healthy self-concept

★A WHOLE single  has a clear and a solid faith

★A WHOLE  single  grows his or her own roots in God

★A WHOLE single has a clear and vivid pictures of where he or she is going in Life and modalities on God's word How to get there

★You should be preoccupied with preparing yourself for whomever His is preparing for you and not being busy looking for the one God is preparing for you and end up unprepared for the prepared person

★Our first priority as a believer is to seek the Kingdom of God and His Righteousness and every other things will automatically be added to it,in otherwords you should intercept you partner along the path of pursuit of God's Kingdom and being in right stand with Him

★Don't ever become so preoccupied by who you want that you forget to become who you are

★Unity of mind and thought-walking in agreement, is the kind of relationship believers must have in order to experience God's power

★Intimacy is a state of existence in which both partners in the relationship trust the other more with their innermost thoughts,it barely has to do with feelings

★The ultimate purpose of dating is to develop true intimacy: a oneness of Spirit between a man a woman

★Dating enhances true friendship not casual aquaintance but people who are joined together heart and soul... this is the foundation for a long-term relationship


☆THIS IS A TRUE REFLECTION OF WHAT DATING AND RELATIONSHIP FOR SINGLES SHOULD BE ABOUT. ☆